A few months ago we were watching PUP Academy and one of the pups told another 'you don't need to help me because you HAVE TO but because YOU WANT TO'. There is a difference in attitude don't you think? Remember the things you have done because of the dogmas of 'I should', 'I must', 'I have to' and the things you have done because you willing did because 'you wanted to'. There must be a great difference. Christmas is round the corner and so many decisions need to be made. Sometimes unfortunately, festive seasons can be stressful. We allow them to be so because we do things we think we have to but really don't want to.You may want to stay home and just be but feel you have to travel... Hope this year 2020, we can have a stress free Christmas, let us strive to do what we can because we want to and not because we have to.