Hi friend, It's been so long since I dropped by, but I hope that I can write more often. I have been well and blessed to journey with friends through life. It is almost 6years in November, since Jaden rested and I look back now and think I have a little clue to 'my why me questions' which I desperately sort answers. You see, when in pain, it is hard to see, hear or believe the answers to our questions. Would it make sense when in pain to hear that your loss would help you encourage others? It would seem ridiculous, unfair or not make sense at all. I totally feel you, I was there too. 6 years down the line, the pain is not intense as it was 6years ago. The loss has made me more human to say the least. I rush towards those mum's that experience loss. Things I took for granted like pregnancy, healthy babies and life are never obvious for me. All these are gifts and blessings from God. So yes today may hurt, tomorrow also but with time you get to see a clearer p