I have always looked at life as a journey because there is never a time you can say you have reached your destination.Yes you may have milestones but a final destination am not sure that is possible. This morning as I walked from Nairobi Hospital, I thought to myself that it has been almost 5years since Jaden passed on in the very hospital.I told myself that despite God being a healer of our broken hearts, things I thought were obvious like visiting patients in hospital are not automatic. It takes strength and God to help me walk into some of these places, despite the number of years that have gone by. The initial years after loss, I didn't even want to walk or drive past that hospital, with time there were wards I would go to and some I wouldn't go to date. My girlfriend is admitted in a female ward and I have been visiting her with no issues.However, she needed a surgical procedure and was to be in HDU after surgery for observation then go back to the ward....