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Peer Pressure

Am not sure whether I mentioned that the other day I as I picked Samara from school, she innocently asked me whether I would buy her a Ben 10 bag. I told her she has a nice bag and didn't need a Ben 10 bag. I was shocked that peer pressure starts early. So this morning, I asked her teacher whether there are kids with Ben 10 bags and she said actually they have 5 kids with the Ben 10 bags that you drag and a few girls have the princess bags. So I told her no wonder baby girl was asking about the bag and she was like " you should buy her a princess bag". What? I told her no, her kings collection bag is good enough.

Anyways. I have heard many parents say how they receive pressure from schools regarding celebration of birthday parties, the kind of toys kids have, etc. Anyways for us , we shall not give into pressure.

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waitingarms said…
Good job mommy - it is so easy to give in to the pressure, but it does so much damage in the long run. The kids don't learn gratitude or how to appreciate what they have as they are always yearning for what someone else has. As parents, we are the ones who drop the ball by giving in to the pressure to keep up with the Joneses because we don't want to be the "bad guys" and it is much easier to capitulate and give in to a child who is whinning for the "in" toy or outfit.
29 September 2012 at 02:04
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