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My Precious Family

 Baby Jaden as newborn

 Big sister is so proud of carrying her brother
 My lovely family
 My babies
 Big sister took this picture of mummy and baby boy
 My precious babies just bonding
 Our son
 My boys
Big sister was so proud and happy to have you in her life. She surprised me, every morning before school she would ask about you Jaden, immediately after school, she wanted to see your face..there was no hint of jealousy at all in her. We miss you my angel...

Jaden Josef Karega, so peaceful and I thank God for allowing us to hold you and have precious memories. I miss you so much today, 1 week later my tears still flow freely, I miss the times we shared together my boy.

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Ems Makuthi said…
Thanks for sharing Sly...i miss my nephew too and yes tears still freely flow...God will take care of the tears and hill heal our hearts...
Anonymous said…
th photos r lovely Sly.
I asked myself i f u r wondering why 1wk later th world is still running as normal. why didn't time stop for a wyl to just allow healing so tht u dnt hv to play catch up later? then I realised that it's a good thing the world is running as usual cz it means Whoever ws in control last wk is still in control. our God is still in control. nothing has shaken Him for.nothing takes Him by surprise. He knows hw long it will take for u to b ok,n He's preparing things in th background awaiting ur return.
as th tears flow, He sees, n He's there for u. He alone who understands hw u r feeling is there for u.
may u remain comforted n strengthened.
Mush.
Ems thank you for walking this road with us. Mush indeed I was in town yesterday and I felt lost, tears were so close, I wondered whether anyone knows my pain...memories were all over but all in all God saw me through the day. I later found my way to my mum's office and her shoulder was there for me to cry on and reassure me that it is well..
Kageha said…
Hugs. Miss that handsome boy. Answers may be few but we shall learn more when we go to see the Father.

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