My Life

Christmas already? Another year is gone so so fast. Am so amazed at God's goodness. How awesome is the God that I serve. I can't believe that at the start of this year, I was at rock bottom. As people rejoiced last year over this season, I hated it with all of me. I just wanted to hide in my bed despite being sorrounded by family. As people laughed, I despised it.Why would you be so happy , when am so sad and lost?I cried on New Year's Eve, 2012 was a very very difficult year and I wondered what did 2013 have in store? Did I care whether I lived through it or not? But friends, as I have written today on my facebook page, pain and sorrow do not las t. God has a way of soothing our broken hearts. He has His special way of easing the pain of loss and whatever hurts. Today I stand in awe of His love and works. How can such a big God , reach out to someone like me? But God is love and that is His nature. So, to all those that are hurting right now, a loss of a loved one or fr...

This morning my heart is bubbling with joy. I am overwhelmed by God’s love for me and my family especially in this year. I can testify over and over that God is real in my life and His promises are always true no matter how long they take. Psalms 139:14-16 says; I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, our eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. Jeremiah 1:4-5 says; Before I formed you in the womb ,I knew you before you were born. That is my testimony this beautiful morning. I never knew that I would ever write about baby number three and being pregnant again. It is a pure and perfect gift from God and only He knew about baby before us. Are we excited yes we are excited to be pregnant now at week 14. T...

Every family would love to celebrate happy times with their children as they grow. On Friday we went to Samara's school to watch her do Christmas Carols and act in the snow white play. We were so proud of her. At the back of my mind, I wished the Lord had given us the same opportunity with Jaden, or allowed us to attend such functions with him. Allowed Samara to brag abit more about her small brother and allowed us to see his major milestones. Now all I looked at yesterday were the beautiful flowers I held in my hands and his photo album when we got home. Well yesterday 10th November was the first year anniversary since Jaden went to be with the Lord. We went to his grave with flowers and as I held them,I cried to God because I wished I didn't have to hold flowers in my hand and place them on my son's grave.I wished I held him in my arms and as his dad said given him the flowers instead. The tears flowed,our hearts were so broken. I didn't want to leave the grave.I wa...

How to Turn Your Crisis into an Opportunity By Dr. Charles Stanley Trust that God is working everything in your life for your good. “We know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose” ( Rom. 8:28 ). Believe that our heavenly Father is in control of everything. “The LORD has established His throne in the heavens, and His sovereignty rules over all” ( Ps. 103:19 ). Accept that the Lord’s ways are higher than ours. “‘My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,’ declares the LORD. ‘For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts’” ( Isa. 55:8-9 ). Refuse to make quick judgments in the midst of a crisis. “Thus the Lord GOD, the Holy One of Israel, has said, ‘In repentance and rest you will be saved, in quietness and trust is your strength’” ( Isa. ...

That is the song that played in my head this morning "never would have made it, if it was not for God". Today is last day of October and we usher in November. I have been totally humbled by God's grace and strength over that past year. Jaden left us abruptly on 10th November 2012 and I thought and felt like I would die . The pain was unbearable, the missing and shock were to great to express and I wanted to just die and follow my son. I walked around like a zombie and wished the pain and experience away. With breasts full of milk, with no baby it hurt the more everytime I showered and they poured milk. But God is gracious. He is amazing for real. I wished that time would fly,fast forwar d so that I didn't have to deal with the pain but none of that happened. God walked with me daily. He heard my pleas for strength when I felt I wasn't strong enough to face the day. He touched me where it hurt most. The daily tears were wiped and replaced with an inner peace a...

http://youtu.be/4mmgV6mPvb0 We pray for blessings, we pray for peace Comfort for family, protection while we sleep We pray for healing, for prosperity We pray for Your mighty hand to ease our suffering And all the while, You hear each spoken need Yet love us way too much to give us lesser things 'Cause what if your blessings come through rain drops What if Your healing comes through tears What if a thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know You're near What if trials of this life are Your mercies in disguise We pray for wisdom, Your voice to hear We cry in anger when we cannot feel You near We doubt your goodness, we doubt your love As if every promise from Your word is not enough And all the while, You hear each desperate plea And long that we'd have faith to believe 'Cause what if your blessings come through rain drops What if Your healing comes through tears What if a thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know You're near...

I am one excited gal today. Ok not excited but relieved is a better word. As you all know, I dreaded coming back to work after Jaden's death because of the many questions people would ask me. My mum enocuraged me to get back to my "normal routine" and so I did. My initial encounters were very painful, explaining to people with whom we share the same office block that Jaden had rested. I had clients also call just to check on me. At times I battled in my head or within me when someone asked about Jaden. I would ask myself, how often do I see you? Do I really have to take you down my road? Do I need you to feel bad or can I spare you the information. So depending on the answers, I either told you what happened or just let the question slide. So in my daily interactions that used to be the debate in my head. However there were 2 ladies who we met regularly and one would even ask how old is the baby now and I gathered I needed to tell her so that she wouldnt have to ask m...