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Our friends, Our best couple

I am so glad that we settled for our best couple to be the Makuthis. Initially, when we mentioned to some people  that we wanted them to be our best couple, people were  truly concerned because Emma is Alex's older sister. Most argued due to that blood relationship,it would be difficult to resolve issues because they would have a  natural bias towards Alex. 

 We settled for them because we share the same values, are in same age group and our relationship is founded on  Christ and the friendship we had even before we started dating.  Infact we are in a larger couples group together. We have sat a zillion times with them and draw so much lessons from their true experiences. Over the years, I have never regretted them being in our lives both as friends, best couple and relatives. Emma is first my  true friend then my sister.

We have had our share of ups and downs in marriage like all people do and we have sort their help and wisdom, they have also had the right to probe us and what has captivated me most times is how impartial they have been. They are graced with wisdom, they  have believed in us even when at times our sight was blinded. They look and deal with the real and underlying issues and not the persons involved. .Most of all they are real examples to us both in how they handle their marriage and their 3 lovely babies.They  actually practice what they preach, are available and accessible to us whenever.

We had a lovely evening together on Thursday without the kids. We just laughed and laughed but in the midst of catching up we learned much more. So today, I just want to say thank you to the Makuthis for being in our lives and for being such valuable friends to the Karega family. We can not reward you for your input in our lives, but we say may the Lord bless you, may He expand your boundaries, may He bless your going in and going out. May He grace you with more wisdom, joy and love and may He protect your Hearts of Gold. 

You are a great team, a great couple and a great family. We love you.

Wa Karega

Comments

Ems Makuthi said…
humbled, humbled, humbled!
Ems Makuthi said…
Humbled, humbled, humbled

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