My Life

7years ago Jaden, you ushered me into motherhood for a second time. My second born, my first son. It has been a journey with and without you. Celebrating you son. You are still loved and missed. Happy 7th birthday. I love this song. Trust in you https://youtu.be/qv-SXz_exKE Love you always Mummy

I was interviewed many years after the loss of Jaden and Mummy Tales have reshare our story. Amazing how 7years later, things have changed and the pain was never wasted. Proud to be pursuing my masters in marriage and family therapy, to walk with individuals, couples and families who maybe in their own life journey and need to walk with someone. http://mummytales.com/sylvia-karega-of-sas-impressions-no-season-in-life-is-permanent/ Nothing in life is permanent and we share our stories to encourage someone else. Sly

Why we tell our stories Listened this morning to TD Jake's interview on his book Crushing:When God turns pressure into power https://youtu.be/CzP23Zti-YI  . Very insightful.  We tell our stories, so that people know they can survive, So that they may know grapes turn to wine, The cross turns to crowns The pain turns to power The scars turn to stars.

 I was browsing my facebook page and a memory had been posted from my post on 9th November, testifying how Jaden was recovering well and thanking friends for standing with us. Little did I know the very next day, Jaden would rest in our Father's arms. So 6years today, actually being a Friday like it was on that day, I felt sad reading it and seeing it. It has been a journey and continues to be with many treasures in the dark. I never thought, I would breath again after Jaden rested yet here we are 6years later confessing of God's goodness and comfort. He has been our comforter and allowed us to walk beside families who have lost their babies and for that we are thankful. Isaiah 61:2-3 has been our anchor verse. To proclaim the year of the Lord ’s favor a nd the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve in Zion— to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of ...

Happy birthday baby J. It's been 6years since our titles changed to mum&dad of two and to big sister. We still remember and still celebrate the gift of you in our lives. Big sister still says she has 2 brother and that warms my heart. Always in our hearts,always loved baby J.

I love the month of October.  This month has always and will always be special to me.  We were married in October and next week ,we celebrate our 10th anniversary. A few years ago, we had a successful open heart surgery for baby girl in India.  But why I love it the more is that 6years ago, on 13th October, we were gifted with baby Jaden. Our second born baby who we eagerly waited for and loved once we held him in our hands. We thought it was obvious that he would stay with us but after 3 weeks he could not stay. October is is the Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month. We Remember, the babies born sleeping, those we carried but never held, those we held but could not take home, those who came home, but could not stay. With Jaden not staying as much as we wanted him to, we grieved deeply yet we discovered so many treasures in the dark. When our pastor preached about treasures in the dark, I wondered what he meant.6 years now, we have been able to appre...

Hi, Marriage missions website and its rich resources on all things relationships has been a resource to me. I have shared a link  https://marriagemissions.com/grieving-death-child/  on grieving a child. It leads to so many more articles and videos. Blessings Sly